Every single morning, 1-2 BILLION people crawl out of bed, drag themselves to their kitchen, and brew themselves a hot cup of morning coffee.

 

The preparation varies, the strength varies, but one thing stays the same – we’re all participating in some form of a warm morning coffee ritual.

 

 

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In some chapters of life, coffee means SURVIVAL. Caffeine. Fuel.

 

In other chapters of life, coffee means COMFORT. Warm. Support.

 

Drinking Coffee is one the most celebrated plant magics in the present human experience.

 

BUT FOR ALL MY WITCHY GIRLIES OUT THERE: Why Don’t We Take Our Morning Coffee Ritual ONE STEP Further??

 

 

Why Everyone Should Have A Morning Coffee Ritual 

 

Yes, you. Your mom. Her mom. Their neighbor. His daughter. Her boyfriend. ALL OF US.

 

BECAUSE STARTING THE DAY WITH INTENTION, COMFORT, AND SELF CARE HAS NEVER BEEN A BAD IDEA.

 

Studies have shown that healthy morning routines completely uplevel your life by:

  • Setting you up for a productive day
  • Making you more emotionally resilient
  • Tricking your brain to look for positivity
  • Setting you up for emotional wellbeing
  • among other benefits.

SO WHAT ARE WE WAITING FOR?

 

 

The Heart of the Ritual: Stirring Intention Into Your Coffee

 

In a minute, I am going to give you a list of 13 IDEAS for your morning coffee ritual.

 

BUT FIRST

 

Let’s talk about the very first step.

 

Let’s give our brain an anchor point that tells it: “The Ritual Has Begun”. 

 

Before we pull a tarot card or reach for our journal, all of us should take 10 seconds to close our eyes and think of an intention for our morning coffee ritual. 

 

  • What do we need to hear?
  • What do we need to accomplish?
  • What do we want to focus on today?

 

Open your eyes, visualize your intention, and lovingly stir support for it right into your cup. ✨

 

This might look like: “I am taking care of myself and this coffee will nourish my soul. “I am doing important things that will ripple out and change my community”. Whatever you want your intention to be 💜

 

NOW GRAB YOUR CUP, CHOOSE AN IDEA FROM BELOW. Let’s Get Started!  ☕

 

13 IDEAS for Your MORNING COFFEE RITUAL

 

The list of ways to conduct a morning coffee are endless. But I’ve gathered 13 different ones for you to try. You can pick some, ignore others, and make your new morning coffee ritual yours.

 

1. Light a Candle

 

Candles have been a cultural anchor for human beings forever.

 

We lit candles at dinner. We lit candles to read. We lit candles to feel safe. 🕯️

 

 

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Grab a candle and a lighter (or a box of matches if you want the witchy aesthetic which honestly, same), close your eyes, and visualize the candle as anything (your day, your life, your business, your relationship). 

 

Light the candle and watch as you symbolically bring light to the area of your life that requires a little illumination and warmth.

 

 

2. Pull a Tarot or Oracle Card

 

TAROT IS AMAZING. My absolute favorite Tarot Youtuber is Avalon Intuitive

 

One of my favorite slow Tarot Rituals is to shuffle, choose a card, and then study every detail of the card.

 

  • What haven’t I noticed about the background before?
  • What small details have I missed about the person’s clothing?
  • What does this card mean to me in general, and what about today specifically?

 

Don’t worry about the “textbook definition” of the tarot card. How does it make you feel?

 

TAROT IS ALSO GREAT FOR STRENGTHENING YOUR INTUITION. 

 

But if tarot feels too complicated, buy an oracle deck. Oracle decks are lovely ways to receive messages from the Universe and I 10/10 recommend them too!

 

3. Visualization for the Day Ahead

 

Visualizing how you want your day to go is a clever way to trick your brain into looking for the things you want. 🧠

 

If you start your day by picturing yourself having a great day, receiving good news, and connecting with others, or whatever else you’d like to manifest, your brain will look for it in your reality later in the day and help you create that reality.

 

THIS IS STRAIGHT UP MAGIC. ✨

 

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Visualize your most magical day possible and watch the Universe align for you in your reality.

 

4. Journaling With Your Coffee

 

Grab a journal and your favorite pen and dive down deep into yourself.

 

Your journal practice may look like:

 

 

THIS IS AN ESPECIALLY GREAT CHOICE FOR MY PISCES AND GEMINIS! ✨

 

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There is no wrong way to do a journaling ritual, as long as it feels right.

 

5. Positive Affirmations

 

You’ve already stirred intention into your cup of coffee, why not take it a step further?

 

If words of affirmation is your love language (mine too!), take the time to be your own best friend and tell yourself the loving words that you need to hear.

 

Here are 22 Ideas for Positive Affirmations to get you started. 💗

 

 

6. Breathwork or Nervous‑System Reset

 

There really is nothing like a good deep breath when you are feeling stressed.

 

BREATHE IN WHAT YOU WANT, BREATHE OUT WHAT YOU RELEASE.

 

You can practice box breathing, alternate nostril breathing, or simply sit still and focus on your breathe.

 

7. A Mini Gratitude Morning Coffee Ritual

 

WHERE OUR MIND GOES ENERGY FLOWS ✨

 

We already said that focusing on the good in our life allows our brain to see more good in our life and therefore increase it…

 

So sip your coffee while you think of 3-5 (or more!) things that you are genuinely grateful for, so you attract more of those things into your life.

 

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Here are some areas of your life to consider:

  • Your career
  • Your relationships
  • Your homelife
  • Your health
  • Your wealth
  • Your abilities
  • Your hobbies
  • Your experiences

 

We all have tons to complain about. But this is about looking for the positives.

 

8. Read a Page of Something Nourishing

 

If you’re a reader and you’ve got a TBR full of “want to read eventually” self-growth books – the time has come.

 

Grab that non-fiction book (you know the one you don’t want to read before bed) and set a morning goal to read 5-10 pages during your morning coffee ritual.

 

If you choose the book wisely, it’ll probably provide you with mental fuel and inspiration that will set you up for a productive day. 📖

 

Related Reads:

 

9. Create a “Queen Energy” Moment

 

So follow me on this…

 

…you could push snooze, sleep in, wake up groggy, and then rush to get dressed and start your to-do list. You’re now stressed, disheveled, and mentally foggy.

 

OR YOU COULD…

 

…set your alarm for 20 minutes early, have your morning coffee ritual, and get in touch with your inner goddess. You’re calmer, more self-assured, and ready to greet your day with the grounded, regal air of the Queen archetype.

 

WHICH DAY IS GOING TO BE BETTER? 👑

 

10. A Micro‑Act of Devotion

 

We are all connected energetically. For this morning coffee ritual idea, choose someone or something to offer a small act of devotion. Infuse your energy into one of the following:

 

  • Water a plant 
  • Build an altar
  • Send gratitude to an ancestor
  • Send energy to someone living
  • Walk your dog 
  • Offer a prayer for someone

 

What we give we receive back multiplied, so giving energy intentionally is a sure way to keep the good energy flowing in your life.

 

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11. Choosing a Word of the Day

 

Trust your intuition on this. Is there a word you want to embody? Is there a word that you want to call in?

 

Maybe you hear an inspirational word in conversation, or read it in a book. But if your mind catches on any one single word, hold it near to your heart and focus on calling it into your reality.

 

12. Choosing a Crystal of the Day

 

Even the science people believe that everything is energy, so crystals are no different. 💎

 

If you have a collection, let your intuition guide you to whichever one calls you. Stick it in your pocket, place it on your altar, or spend a few minutes holding it while you breathe.

 

 

13. Take a Micro-Action Toward Your Goals

 

How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time.

 

All of us have goals. Hopefully, you also have big goals. The type of goal that makes you a little scared because you’re not sure it’s possible.

 

DURING YOUR MORNING COFFEE RITUAL, SET A MICRO-GOAL FOR YOURSELF THAT KEEPS YOU ON THE ROAD TO ACHIEVING THAT BIG GOAL. 

 

Want to write a book? ➡️ Type 100 Words 

Want to learn a language? ➡️ Memorize 2 new words

Want to get stronger? ➡️ Hold plank for 30 seconds

 

Micro-actions support consistency and consistency supports goal attainment! 

 

How to Choose the Right Morning Coffee Ritual for You

 

Now that you’ve got a list of 13 ideas for your new ritual, see what works for you. Maybe you try an idea and hate it, or maybe you try an idea and feel meh about it.

 

TRUST YOUR INTUITION ON WHICH RITUAL YOU NEED IN YOUR LIFE.

 

Our gut usually guides us toward the things we need, so listening to what feels right will help you make your morning coffee ritual something nourishing that you can keep coming back to frequently.

 

Start the Day With Magic, Not Hustle

 

Nowadays we have so much of our life that moves fast.

 

We are constantly forced to do, act, be, achieve and it all feels rushed.

 

THAT’S WHY HAVING A MORNING COFFEE RITUAL AS AN ANCHOR WILL DO WONDERS FOR YOUR MENTAL HEALTH AND EMOTIONAL WELL-BEING.

 

It’s a radical act of self-care to start your day slow and you deserve it. 

 

If you liked this post, consider sticking around. Here are the Candlelight Collective, we talk about all things magical, intentional, and purposeful. My mission is convincing as many women as possible that they deserve a joyful, fulfilled life NOW,

 

 

Catch you on the next one,

 

Xx Bri