Women are naturally wired to give, nurture, support, and love other people.
But if you are a woman who is tired of shrinking to accommodate others, overgiving to maintain your relationships, and proving yourself to secure your “worth”, there might be something inside of you whispering that you were meant for more.
THAT’S YOUR INNER QUEEN CALLING. 👑
Queen energy is magnetic. A Queen attracts the things she needs to thrive, she trusts that those things will come, and then she receives them without guilt or shame.
Even if you feel cut off from that energy, your inner Queen Energy already exists inside of you.
In this guide, you’ll learn how to embody your inner Queen in your everyday life so you can attract aligned relationships and opportunities and manifest the dream life that is waiting for you to claim it.
What is “Queen Energy”?
IF YOU CLOSE YOUR EYES AND PICTURE A QUEEN, WHAT DO YOU SEE?
How does she carry herself?
What is she wearing?
What energy does she have?
A Queen is a self-assured, mature, graceful, and confident woman with a commanding personal power. She’s already “made it” and she doesn’t seek your approval because she has nothing to prove.
She isn’t easily thrown off track, and her energy is grounded and wise.
She is the ultimate symbol of feminine power.
The Energy of the Queen Archetype
An archetype is a universal theme that appears in the human experience – basically, a stereotype.
We often talk about the feminine archetypes of maiden, mother, and crone.
THE QUEEN ARCHETYPE DESIRES GREATNESS AND SHE ISN’T AFRAID TO RECEIVE IT.
She is a natural leader, she is charismatic and magnetic, and she desires self-control and independence above all.
She often holds a clear vision of a better future that will benefit not just her, but the greater good.
The Queen Archetype is an energy very beneficial to manifestation, and all women trying to call in a new reality should tap into their inner Queen Energy to attract and receive the deepest desires of their manifestation lists.
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Cultivating Deep Trust
The Queen has a very interesting relationship with trust. The Queen doesn’t depend on everyone to figure her life out for her, but:
- The Queen trusts that she knows what she wants
- The Queen trusts that the Universe will give it to her
- The Queen trusts that she’s worthy of her desires
The Queen takes aligned action to receive her desires without fear or manipulation. Instead, she attracts her desires like a magnet.
TRUSTING YOURSELF
To embody your Inner Queen, you have to trust that you know what you want. You have to slay the dragons in your own mind that try to pull you off-track from your deepest desires.
When you were a child, you knew exactly what you wanted. Your dreams were grand and they were clear.
A CHILD KNOWS WHAT SHE WANTS UNTIL A GROWN-UP PLANTS THE SEED OF DOUBT.
Accessing your Inner Queen means allowing your intuition to guide your actions and desires.
If you feel cut off from your intuition, you can grab my FREE 10 Day Journaling Challenge specifically designed to ask questions that will activate your inner wisdom and get you in touch with your deepest desires.
TRUSTING THE UNIVERSE
Our galaxy (the Milky Way) has more than 100 billion stars. And outside of our galaxy, there may be up to 20 trillion more galaxies.
THAT IS A LOT OF STARS.
Do you honestly think that there isn’t magic to the Universe?
You could believe that everything is accidental and nothing really matters OR you could believe that there is a Divine Force conducting the great dance of life, and that this Force (call it the Universe, God, Love) wants to co-create your life with you.
The truth is that joyful people ripple out positivity and raise the collective vibration. So why wouldn’t the Universe want to support you in securing your desire?
THE QUEEN TRUSTS THAT THE UNIVERSE IS ON HER SIDE, EVEN WHEN SHE DOESN’T KNOW THE DETAILS OF HOW OR WHY.
TRUSTING YOUR WORTH
So many women couldn’t receive their manifestations even if they were delivered to us on a silver platter.
Are you sure it’s ok for me to be this blessed?
Should I share some of my blessing so I don’t feel guilty?
Maybe I should earn my blessing a little more first?
THE QUEEN AWAITS HER DESIRES AND ACCEPTS THEM WHEN THEY ARRIVE.
Every manifestation girly must come face-to-face with her own self-worth.
You can want all of the things in the world, but if you don’t feel worthy of receiving them, the Universe is blocked from delivering your manifestations to you.
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The Art of Receiving
Okay, so you probably understand the logistics of receiving. But how do you practice the art of receiving in a society that has trained you to shrink?
Let’s look at a few practical areas.
Receiving Compliments Without Shrinking
If you walked up to a Queen and toward her she looked beautiful, imagine if she said “oh, I got this shirt at Target and I seriously need a haircut.”
WHAT?! No. Way.
A Queen feels worthy to be beautiful, take up space, and be seen.
The next time someone compliments you, do not try to contradict their kind words by presenting evidence to the contrary.
Say it with me: “Thank you.” Period.
Receiving Help Without Guilt
Many of us would practically die before thinking of inconveniencing anyone else.
CHANNEL YOUR INNER QUEEN ENERGY BY GRACIOUSLY ACCEPTING SUPPORT FROM OTHERS.
Of course, like all things, give and take is a divine balance. Do not always take without reciprocating support.
But the next time you need a ride to the airport, call your Uncle. You might be surprised how good it feels to accept support and to realize you already have more community than you thought.
Receiving Gifts and Opportunities
The next time it’s your birthday and someone brings you a present, resist the urge to feel guilty for them spending money on you.
You are worthy of nice things and if someone in your life chose to trade their time, energy, and money for something special for you, you have to learn to accept it gratefully.
WHEN A LOVED ONE GIFTS SOMETHING SPECIAL TO YOU IT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE SHOWING YOU THAT THEY VALUE YOU.
The same thing goes for opportunities. Don’t shrink away from a raise, a better career option, a handsome partner.
When the Universe delivers blessings to you in the form of gifts or opportunities, you are receiving proof of your self-worth. Learn to accept!
Behaviors that Block Queen Energy
Now that you have homework for channeling your Inner Queen Energy, let’s talk about behaviors to stop doing.
Over-giving Out of Scarcity
We’ve all had that friend that is always over-giving because she is insecure and desperately wants to be liked.
Overgiving out of scarcity is way out of alignment with the Queen Archetype.
Only give to others when you are giving from an open heart. If you are giving for any other reason, you are doing so from the wrong energy.
Working Hard for Approval
There is a time and place for working hard toward our goals, but a true Queen knows when to slow down and enjoy the fruits of her labor.
THERE IS NO HONOR IN WORKING HARD SIMPLY FOR THE ACT OF WORKING HARD.
Working hard without a reason is the mindset of an employee – or in our metaphor – is the mindset of a peasant.
A Queen doesn’t work hard just so that people think highly of her. That is nonsensical.
Feeling Ashamed for Needing Support
Historically, Queens had a huge team of trusted advisors. She had astrologers, financial advisors, political strategists, and personal aides.
QUEENS KNOW THE IMPORTANCE OF HAVING A TRUSTED TEAM.
In modern terms, you can activate your inner queen energy by building a network of support for yourself. This can look like having a dependable accountant, knowledgeable financial advisor, personal counselor or therapist, and a trusted circle of friends and family.
You do not have to “do live alone” and you will go much farther in life when you learn to accept support.
How Queen Energy Helps You Attract Your Dream Life
So why am I bothering to talk about activating your Queen Energy on a blog that’s all about creating your dream life?
I believe that tapping into your Queen Energy is a crucial tool in attracting your dream life to you. It isn’t enough to write your desires down on a manifestation list and wait for them to appear.
MANIFESTATION REQUIRES DOING THE WORK.
When we compare our current habits to that of a Queen, we can identify weak areas in our self-worth.
Can I take up space?
Can I receive large blessings without guilt?
Do I feel worthy of an extraordinary life?
A Queen will accept her many blessings and channeling her energy will help you learn how to accept many blessings into your own.
Your Inner Queen is Already Within You
Archetypes or stereotypical energies that exist within all of us. You already have the Queen archetype inside of you, you simply have to choose to tap into it.
No matter how far you’ve strayed from your Queen Energy, you can always call it back into your reality.
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